K-pop, queerbating, and the masculinity of a Korean trans man.
I think the main reason so many queer fans, particularly Western fans, are allured to K-pop is because of gender performances that challenge Western norms.
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Opinion
Opinions are not to be liked by everyone, but they are still worth a good read or two.
Tops, Bottoms, Vers & Sides!
If you have watched Channel 4's TV show Cucumber (2015), you will probably be familiar with the character of Henry Best (Vincent Franklin), a middle-aged gay man who does not engage in penetrative sex with other men not out of some trauma or fear of being in
Is it OK to ask someone if they are HIV+ before sex?
If you are reading this post and believe this is a fair question, give me a minute to tell you why I disagree.
F@CK Netflix & D#V3 CHA&£LL£ / Here are some great queer Stand Up Comedians
You may have heard about a cisgender male comedian that made some jokes about
our trans siblings. I don't plan to talk if people should be cancelled, and I
won't waste time arguing if we should make fun of a minority that is the target
of
My Open Relationship
This post is part of a series
Open Relationships 101 >
Questionmark on Open Relationships Part 1 >
Part 2 > Part 3 > Part 4 >
Μy open relationship
Now, this is probably the scariest post I've ever written. Although I was the one who compiled all
How can anyone be proud to be LGBT?
Have you ever had a dystopian nightmare?
The kind of nightmare that a far-right-wing government takes over your country and the police is raiding your house.
If you belong to a minority, you have much higher chances of having such a night vision, or worse, you may be living in one right now.
Make love to a fat fem Asian and 9 more tips for a better LGBTQ+ community
In the previous QuestionMark, I received many suggestions on how to make our community better. I felt though that these were not very actionable. This is why I came up with 10 ways that almost everyone can put them on their list.
1. Come out.
To your family, friends, work,
Sam Smith's Gender Pronouns Update Is What Our Community Needed
Sam Smith has reportedly updated their pronouns to “their/them”. That happened a
few months after they came out as gender non-binary.
This is of great importance for our community and Sam Smith as well. Sam
probably the most famous person requesting to be addressed with the singular
“they”
Can the Pope be an LGBTQ+ ally?
Will we ever parade on Pride along with a bunch of priests?
Pope Francis is attracting a great deal of pink publicity. Most of the articles
I read, some of them from LGBTQ+ publications, paint a rather pink profile for
the Pope.
To many, he seems to be an LGBTQ+