K-pop, queerbating, and the masculinity of a Korean trans man.

I think the main reason so many queer fans, particularly Western fans, are allured to K-pop is because of gender performances that challenge Western norms.

Tops, Bottoms, Vers & Sides!

If you have watched Channel 4's TV show Cucumber (2015), you will probably be familiar with the character of Henry Best (Vincent Franklin), a middle-aged gay man who does not engage in penetrative sex with other men not out of some trauma or fear of being in pain,

Is it OK to ask someone if they are HIV+ before sex?

If you are reading this post and believe this is a fair question, give me a minute to tell you why I disagree.

F@CK Netflix & D#V3 CHA&£LL£ / Here are some great queer Stand Up Comedians

You may have heard about a cisgender male comedian that made some jokes about our trans siblings. I don't plan to talk if people should be cancelled, and I won't waste time arguing if we should make fun of a minority that is the target of

My Open Relationship

This post is part of a series Open Relationships 101 > Questionmark on Open Relationships Part 1 > Part 2 >   Part 3  >   Part 4  > Μy open relationship Now, this is probably the scariest post I've ever written. Although I was the one who compiled all